Excatly. don't think people should be held responsible for mistakes they don't know they're making (Or things they mean as joking that get taken too seriously)

Hopefully this will set up everything BEFORE hand

And don't feel bad, I have been guilty of some of the above as well. Mainly the shinanigans.

(And I can't tell for a fact, but at least I know when I was in your guys room, you were pretty chill with the drinking, and going elsewhere, etc. But I wasn't there that much so IDK how much reassurance that i)