Like...generally I think I'd be a lot like you. But I don't think it's right because they didn't handle things in the most graceful way to be asshole for it, and for THEM to get blamed because OTHER people are asshole.
Like if the whole response had been "We're sorry for your loss, but here, maybe this is a better place to mourn/funnel your energies/etc." it wouldn't have bothered me at all.
I think someone put it perfectly when an anon was like "When someone is mourning they don't run into the street in their underwear screaming that their loved on has died!" and someone responded "Yes, but if they did that, would your reaction be to try to help them find a more healthy outlet, or would it be to call them a psycho bitch and tell them to get back in their house?"
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Like if the whole response had been "We're sorry for your loss, but here, maybe this is a better place to mourn/funnel your energies/etc." it wouldn't have bothered me at all.
I think someone put it perfectly when an anon was like "When someone is mourning they don't run into the street in their underwear screaming that their loved on has died!" and someone responded "Yes, but if they did that, would your reaction be to try to help them find a more healthy outlet, or would it be to call them a psycho bitch and tell them to get back in their house?"