penguinfaery | (no subject)

Okay, so this involves bad communication (Mainly on my part, me thinks) but I need help with it...

I and another player had agreed to have a relationship between our characters, A (mine) and B (hers), and we were starting to develope it when I lost my computer access, last July. Now I checked in regularly with posts and e-mails, I just couldn't acess it every day (Probably every other or so), and no AIM to actually rp. Plus my real life GF was in the rp, so message could be passed on pretty easy that way.

Anyway, when I got back acess, B had...something going on with another players character, C. I'm not sure what. They still aren't, actually, like extreme love/hate friend fuck buddies...I dunno what.

I kinda held my toungue for a bit, and just posted in my character journal little things like "I can't wait to see B!" so she'd IM me if something was going on and the plot needed to change, before I said "Umm...what about our plot?" because I didn't wanna assume something that wasn't really a big deal (At that point, I believe B had done something drunk with C, but since A and B weren't dating it wouldn't be a really big deal to my character, so not something I need worry about really effecting long term plot) then I saw this was becoming more than a little side plot for B so I spoke up and the girl assured me it was "Nothing, they're so just friend, pahshaw" (Paraphrased) So we just kinda plodded along.

Anyway, A and B slept together Halloween (Drunk, B has a habit of such) and B said "No, I can't do this, you don't understand!" (Appaerantly B's family is like...Mafia related, and very anti-homosexual, and A is rather delictae seeming) and I was like "Yay! Drama!" figuring eventually they'd talk and work things out.

Since then, through rp's not with me, B's mun has made it clear that C is who's B's going to...be tied up with, I guess would be the right term, and hasn't discussed it with me...at all. Now I don't mind plots changing around, even to such an extent, but I wanna know and have a hand into what plots my pup gets into. This was suppose to be my fluffy character, not my Emo one.

Anyway, where I need advice. This girl doesn't seem to sense there's any problem at all. And, I'm assuming, because I was involved in some level with the rp, or just because it's like they're pet pup's, both her an C-mun are ALWAYS telling me about "How great this B and C rp is going to be!" And "Read this part of B and C it's so great!" They're both really sweet girls, and I honestly think they just wanna share because they wanna show off things they enjoy, but I can't find the nice place between subtle trying to give them the hint that I don't really like hearing ad nauseum (It seems like I hear about this plot line more than any other in the rp I'm not in...but that may be just cause it stick out to me), and being a bitch about it (And haven't come up with anything to say that wouldn't be bitchy. Even saying it nicely...it in it's self is kinda bitchy, imo) I'm one of those people that get to emtionally attached to thier character, so like...I'm all emo about it to, when I hear about it, and that makes me be...not bitchy about things, but not as pleasant as I'd like to be. I'm mod, so I can't excatly get away with just avoiding them (Plus I have other characters in plot lines with them, and I really do consider them friends)

So how do I nicely say something that could possible hurt thier feelings?

Or do I just suck it up and deal?

I know this is long, I'd LJ-cut it but when I lj-cut things I never get replies. heh.