Some day posts about Julia will be done.

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so. SO.

Julia told Be the only way to go forward was for us to never be angry about the issues again.

I raged. Then decided, wtf, go for it. As you may have read.

She replied back lukewarm. Also as you may have read.

I raged. Be decided it was a misunderstanding (I did use a phrase that means hello or goodbye, so understandable) and texted Ju to clear it up. It was one! Hooray! It's a parade!

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I would be posting with angry!Sheldon if it ended there.

She texts me. She misunderstood...and need to tell me that that isn't enough. "Starting fresh now would be poisonous to both of us."

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Lets deconstruct this...

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so. SO.

Julia told Be the only way to go forward was for us to never be angry about the issues again.

[TRANSLATION: HI, I'M JU. I AM TOO CHICKENSHIT TO DEAL WITH THIS DIRECTLY WITH YOU, THEREFORE I MUST WORK VIA A PROXY]

I raged. Then decided, wtf, go for it. As you may have read.

[TRANSLATION: Terra is ANGRY THAT YOU THINK SO LITTLE OF her FEELINGS THAT THE ONLY WAY WE CAN PROCEED IS FOR Terra TO DENY her LEGITIMATE (AT LEAST FOR TERRA WHICH IS ALL THAT IS NECESSARY] EMOTIONS. THANKS FOR NOT RESPECTING OTHERS FEELINGS JU.]

She replied back lukewarm. Also as you may have read.

[TRANSLATION: JU IS UNWILLING TO COMMIT TO A PROCESS THAT WOULD FORCE HER TO EXPRESS HER REAL FEELINGS]

I raged. Be decided it was a misunderstanding (I did use a phrase that means hello or goodbye, so understandable) and texted Ju to clear it up. It was one! Hooray! It's a parade!

[TEXTING, EMAIL, ETC WILL NEVER REPLACE DIRECT COMMUNICATION.]
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I would be posting with angry!Sheldon if it ended there.

She texts me. She misunderstood...and need to tell me that that isn't enough. "Starting fresh now would be poisonous to both of us."

[TRANSLATION: HAHAH! ISNT IT FUN TO BE NON-COMMITTAL? NOW PLEASE PUT ON THIS CLOWN SUIT AND GO DANCE ON THE STREET CORNER! NO WAIT! THATS NOT WHAT I SAID. YOU KNOW, YOU JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND MY DEPTHS. YOU NEED TO WEAR THE CHICKEN SUIT AND STAND IN FRONT OF POPEYES SAYING EAT ME! OTHERWISE I DON'T THINK YOU ARE TAKING THIS SERIOUSLY.]

Terra, the only thing toxic in this situation is Ju, and how she keeps pushing your buttons without committing to anything constructive. You deserve far better than this. You have gone out of your way to make things right, and hon, its not working.

Hugs. Big Kung-Fu-Panda-Hugs while the Panda mauls Ju with his free hand.

thisis terra my phone is hating me.

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It's like you were there!

I honestly think she set a goal she thought I would never reach to make herself look better and me look uncompromising...and when I did, and she had to put her money where her mouth is...suddenly, this.

I am more frustrated then anything...and even this has gotten to a level where I can't take it seriously anymore. It's absudist.

The only reason I even tried this long is that...for being a straight A student, Ju truly has no common sense. She when she says 'I didn't know!'...she didn't. She's an idiot about people and real life, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt (I even sorta doubt she's craft enough to come up with the above plan. She may be to big a selfconcerned fool to not see how shallow and self centered it was). Now I'm at the point where...I don't care if you're sincere, that just makes you a sincere asshole.