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penguinfaery) wrote2011-06-18 12:21 pm
penguinfaery) wrote2011-06-18 12:21 pm
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This is all assuming that NY legalizes gay marriage *Crosses fingers*
It is...very not expensive to get married in Central Park (I'f I read wirte, a small fees to do it, wedding certificate (Which has a 24 hours wait), and a photographers fee). And I am sorta obsessed with Central Park.
I wanna get married here:
AKA that place I've been making art of since I left last summer.
Very small wedding. Like attendants, parents, and probably a few friends in the area I'm not gonna tell no to. Shorter, cheaper dresses, save the ballgowns for the party. We can even do it during the week, so less people are around (They don't close off the area, just clear it out. We probably need two hotel rooms for a week (Which I can swing, I'm sure *Hotwire.com bamf* and me and Bev would probably want a honeymoon suite to ourselves the night after)
Then I wanna come back and have a huge party here, to celebrate with everyone. That opened up rental venues, because no place has to be able to do double duty as a ceremony and party location, I don't need to find a place with an open area for seating. The clock tower rentals start at I guess $40 and up.
I'm really torn on separating the two. But right now we can't get married in Denver, and this feel really right. And I sorta wanna be like "If you wanna come to NY come!" But...I don't want people who need to travel from California and such choosing between the two. I want them to go to the party, so I can celebrate and visit with them.
I think I may include something akin to the above in the celebration invite, with the edition of "If you really would like to come to the wedding, please contact me." so people like my Aunt Kristy don't feel like their choices were made for them.
It is...very not expensive to get married in Central Park (I'f I read wirte, a small fees to do it, wedding certificate (Which has a 24 hours wait), and a photographers fee). And I am sorta obsessed with Central Park.
I wanna get married here:
AKA that place I've been making art of since I left last summer.
Very small wedding. Like attendants, parents, and probably a few friends in the area I'm not gonna tell no to. Shorter, cheaper dresses, save the ballgowns for the party. We can even do it during the week, so less people are around (They don't close off the area, just clear it out. We probably need two hotel rooms for a week (Which I can swing, I'm sure *Hotwire.com bamf* and me and Bev would probably want a honeymoon suite to ourselves the night after)
Then I wanna come back and have a huge party here, to celebrate with everyone. That opened up rental venues, because no place has to be able to do double duty as a ceremony and party location, I don't need to find a place with an open area for seating. The clock tower rentals start at I guess $40 and up.
I'm really torn on separating the two. But right now we can't get married in Denver, and this feel really right. And I sorta wanna be like "If you wanna come to NY come!" But...I don't want people who need to travel from California and such choosing between the two. I want them to go to the party, so I can celebrate and visit with them.
I think I may include something akin to the above in the celebration invite, with the edition of "If you really would like to come to the wedding, please contact me." so people like my Aunt Kristy don't feel like their choices were made for them.
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I hope NY legalizes it, and it looks like it should. *crosses fingers for you.*
*hugs* because I'm super happy for you guys!
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>.>
Nevermind, I want to do that myself.
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The small ceremony/huge after party idea sounds good, too, if you want your wedding to be small and romantic. (Cheaper, too. In the good way, not the bad way.)
I'm rooting for you!
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